Optimizing large-scale nonconvex problems, common in deep learning, demands balancing rapid convergence with computational efficiency. First-order (FO) optimizers, which serve as today's baselines, provide fast convergence and good generalization but often incur high computation and memory costs due to the large size of modern models. Conversely, zeroth-order (ZO) algorithms reduce this burden using estimated gradients, yet their slow convergence in high-dimensional settings limits practicality. We introduce VAMO (VAriance-reduced Mixed-gradient Optimizer), a stochastic variance-reduced method that extends mini-batch SGD with full-batch ZO gradients under an SVRG-style framework. VAMO's hybrid design utilizes a two-point ZO estimator to achieve a dimension-agnostic convergence rate of $\mathcal{O}(1/T + 1/b)$, where $T$ is the number of iterations and $b$ is the batch-size, surpassing the dimension-dependent slowdown of purely ZO methods and significantly improving over SGD's $\mathcal{O}(1/\sqrt{T})$ rate. Additionally, we propose a multi-point variant that mitigates the $O(1/b)$ error by adjusting the number of estimation points to balance convergence and cost. Importantly, VAMO achieves these gains with smaller dynamic memory requirements than many FO baselines, making it particularly attractive for edge deployment. Experiments including traditional neural network training and LLM finetuning confirm that VAMO not only outperforms established FO and ZO methods, but also does so with a light memory footprint.

In the learning to learn (L2L) framework, we cast the design of optimization algorithms as a machine learning problem and use deep neural networks to learn the update rules. In this paper, we extend the L2L framework to zeroth-order (ZO) optimization setting, where no explicit gradient information is available. Our learned optimizer, modeled as recurrent neural network (RNN), first approximates gradient by ZO gradient estimator and then produces parameter update utilizing the knowledge of previous iterations. To reduce high variance effect due to ZO gradient estimator, we further introduce another RNN to learn the Gaussian sampling rule and dynamically guide the query direction sampling. Our learned optimizer outperforms hand-designed algorithms in terms of convergence rate and final solution on both synthetic and practical ZO optimization tasks (in particular, the black-box adversarial attack task, which is one of the most widely used tasks of ZO optimization). We finally conduct extensive analytical experiments to demonstrate the effectiveness of our proposed optimizer. Learning to learn (L2L) is a recently proposed meta-learning framework where we leverage deep neural networks to learn optimization algorithms automatically. The most common choice for the learned optimizer is recurrent neural network (RNN) since it can capture long-term dependencies and propose parameter updates based on knowledge of previous iterations. By training RNN op-timizers on predefined optimization tasks, the optimizers are capable of learning to explore the loss landscape and adaptively choose descent directions and steps (Lv et al., 2017).